lOve, trust and demOlition

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For most of April and May, as my energy permitted, I was slowly packing up our home, one drawer, one closet, one cabinet at a time. During the last week of May, my husband moved every box, bag and piece of furniture into either our garage or to a generous neighbors garage. We then moved ourselves and our essentials into our close friends house, just a block away, to stay for the next 2 months.

Major 8-week remodel here we come!!

We have lived in our beautiful condo full time for 2 1/2 years – the same amount of time that I have been dealing with Valley Fever. It has been a place of cOmfOrt, lOve and recOvery, and I’ve been grateful every day that we live in such a beautiful place.

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Even though we would like a little bit more space (especially for my ever growing art studio needs : ) we love our location, so we decided to stay and do a few upgrades. Seriously, could we really leave our birds eye view of our beautiful fountain? I don’t think so❤️‼️

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This major type of remodel (taking down walls, building showers, building a new kitchen, replacing all flooring, and painting almost every surface) is new to me. The closest I have come to this size of a job is watching the Property Brothers on the HGTV channel, and it’s easy to say – I am nO expert! Luckily my husband and our contractor, Tony, are!

The planning and decision making has been fun, challenging and eye-opening. It helped to have Tom Olson, a renowned architect who studied and worked directly with Frank Lloyd Wright, and a highly gifted designer and textile artist, Merle Sykora, walking us through the process. (They are the team that designed and built the house we lived in for 24 years in Minnesota!)

Needless to say, packing and moving was just downright stressful. John had to “pull me off the ledge” a few times, and as my therapist said, “You get 10 extra crazy points during a remodel.” Talk about having to practice letting go of the outcome!

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BOth jOhn and I, and the rest Of the team, have needed all three!

I thought the stress level would just continue to increase as the work began. My mind was working overtime scaring me with thoughts like – “What horrible things are we going to find? What if the existing structure isn’t sound? What if we find bugs and rats and rot, Oh my!?” (Yes, I have earned every one of those extra crazy points!)

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pOst mOve, pre-demOlitiOn

Surprisingly, instead of feeling more anxious and stressed out, I am actually enjoying the demolition process. I’m loving seeing our space “stripped down to the studs.” There is something refreshing and comforting to see what is underneath – to see what the foundation is made of – to see the possibilities. I even got to briefly swing a hammer and knock a towel bar off the wall! Thank you, Tony!

After one week of demOlitiOn, the place looks like this:

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There is something very familiar and inspiring about this process. It reminds me why I have been dedicated to uncovering, recovering, and healing old beliefs and wounds for most of my adult life. Why would I want to try and build a healthier, stronger “sOul hOuse” on top of a structure that is rotting, infested or outdated?  The answer is, I wouldn’t! As hard as it is to see the truth sometimes, it is the only way to a healthier, happier and more creative life.

So, it is refreshing to see the places where our home is strong, and where it is weak. Once it is seen it can fixed, enhanced and made new! This has brought me a level of comfort I wasn’t even aware that I was needing, and encourages me to continue doing my work of healing and recovery. It may not be pretty, but it is worth it!

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Is this a man who looks like he knows what he’s doing? Absolutely! If you are in need of a great contractor, Tony Timonte can be found HERE!

Tony and our gutted kitchen.

Tony and our gutted kitchen.

I am excited to see the outcome of our remodeling project, but no longer want to hurry through the demOlitiOn process. I’m continuing to learn the value of each small step and the importance of trusting myself to make good decisions with the help from a hand-picked team of experts – for home remodeling and my health!

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More updates next month! Until then,

Be gentle. Be brave. Be true.

lOve, vickiO

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6 comments

  1. lilylulu

    In the end – this will change your life!! Enjoy the process as much as the product. You’re on the right track. Hope to see you soon.

  2. Lisa M.

    Positive goals and fun projects are the things that get us up out of bed everyday – and you certainly have a share of both on the go! If you can be patient, by taking lots of deep breaths,I have no doubt the structure of your ‘soul house’ will benefit greatly from the reconstruction of your physical house. Good start by listening to your heart and choosing to stay in a place with such magnificent views! Enjoy!

  3. Carol Wallin

    Glad to hear things are going well and that you feel like golfing can once again be a part of your life. I will be anxious to see your home when it is finished. Lots of decisions and challenges. I love “what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger”! Who do you suppose was the first one to figure that one out? Hugs, Carol

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  4. amber

    Congrats on the new and improved space and definitely kudos for acknowledging that we need to get to the foundation of what ails us if we are to ever overcome it. That is so true. Like dirt under a rug, even though you can’t see it that doesn’t mean it’s not there. ❤

    • vickioart

      So true, Amber – love that analogy! And I always feel so much better when I pay attention to what I’m feeling and what I need, and sweep all the dirt and dust bunnies away❤️ Thank you‼️

      • amber

        I’m with ya! And it always helps to have a few assistants clean house… blogging and support helps. 🙂

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